I have had a small breakdown from all the stress these past few days but I wanted to complete me story and then I want to continue my work against this happening to anyone again.
Here are the new flight details I was emailed:
AIRFRANCE
Name: Dr. Anthony Mathew Alves
Departing from : London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Arriving in : Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
Departure flight : Tuesday 27 July 2010
Flights details
All times shown are local times.
Flight/Aircraft Departs Arrives Flight duration
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 06:40 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 08:55
AF1381 *
321 London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Terminal 4 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
01h15mn
Connection Connection time : 1h55mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 11:00 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 14:10
AF8990 *
767 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 3h10mn
Connection Connection time : 01h05mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:15 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:43
AF8733 *
CR9 Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
01h28mn
* Flight AF8990 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
* Flight AF8733 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
Non-smoking flight.
Total flight duration : 10h52mn
So I am excited again, it seems as though we are back on schedule. Inessa is handling getting the money together a second time, it seems she has a friend who is willing to put their car up as collateral for a loan, I figured I don't care what she does as long as I am not expected to handle it. So, this is the email I get the very next morning and coincidentally these 2 emails (the flight info and hers are send on the same day).:
July 19, 2010
OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 19
Hi Debbie,
Good afternoon or morning,i dont know what the time is there.I've called you several times today but you are not taking my calls i left you a voice mail message i dont know if you got it Please i need you to assist me in getting my dad out of IRAN,the person that was suppose to give me money today dissapointed me,i am $X500 short.I told my dad and to talk to you about it,he will just not hear of it,he said he can't in good conscience ask you for anymore help,he has put you tru more than enough troubles,he said you've borrowed $X000 already.
HE told me i should forget about everything,i should give everybody their money back and i know what that means.My dad is a very proud emotional person,he hates to be helped and when he is being helped and thing are not working according to plan he gets vey upset and depressed. Let me save you the sermon,I am begging you in the name of God,Join hands with me and help me Get my dad(your man) out of Iran.I am the one in charge of all the transaction and the sending of the Equipments to Iran,i promise you everything will be fine.
Please,please help me get the $X500 and send the money directly to me
kindly send the money in two fold(western union $X500 and money gram $X000)
Inessa
And following the same pattern, I immediately call Tony, my love, and tell him about this email. Of course, he is incensed that Inessa has again gone behind his back to ask me for money when he has explicitly told her not to...I go into problem solving mode again and come up with an idea: That nights chat with Tony:
Tony Alves: hi honey
debimarzoline: Hi Honey, sorry I woke you so early but I am in problem solving mode.
debimarzoline: Anything new on your front.
Tony Alves: its ok sweetheart,you have nothing to applogise for
Tony Alves: nothing new
debimarzoline: I can earn the money but it will take me awhile. There is a place in Reno that buys blood, I just have to find out their criteria, I run on the anemic side.
debimarzoline: And I have some jewelry I can pawn
Tony Alves: it is the time that is killing me
Tony Alves: my uncle can get the funds in 2 weeks
Tony Alves: but i cant survuve 2 weeks i have to be blunt and honest with you
debimarzoline: And I was going to see how long it would take to make a withdrawal on one of my IRA's
debimarzoline: Why not??
debimarzoline: You can do anything for two weeks
Tony Alves: what is IRA?
debimarzoline: A retirement account
Tony Alves: oh ok
debimarzoline: When I started this horrendous school schedule I didn't think I could do it but someone told me you can survive anything for 4 months and I did
debimarzoline: Then I did it another 4 months
Tony Alves: hmmmmmmmmmmmm you odnt understand,and i wnat to be with you
Tony Alves: is killing me
Tony Alves: i hate it to see you to begin to have some doubts
debimarzoline: Baby, you can do this....I am not having doubts but you need to man up! LOL
debimarzoline: I want to be with you too but I can wait for you, can you wait for me??
debimarzoline: You won't die because I am here waiting....!!!
debimarzoline: You big stubborn Fin!!
debimarzoline: Just make everything right and it will be perfect.
debimarzoline: Why do you say I am having doubts?
Tony Alves: how long will it take for you to make withdrawal from your retirememnt account Right to the heart of the matter
debimarzoline: I have to call tomorrow but it could be a week or more if they let me.
debimarzoline: There is criteria for taking a withdrawal and a penalty.
Tony Alves: what is the penalty
debimarzoline: 10%
debimarzoline: And taxes at the end of the year but I don't know if I have the kind I can borrow from/
Tony Alves: we can do that,i can take care of the taxes and 10% Still willing to do anything to get out and be with ME what a man!!
Re: OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 21
Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for all the stress my dad has caused you,to be honest with you,i am stressed out myself,i hardly sleep at night,the whole situation is killing me.I hope we get to connect later like you said but i don't know what time
Inessa
light at the end of the tunnel Tony Alves to you - Jul 22
Hi Honey,
I sure will give you more than just light next week... i just brought the dental chairs to the Dental centre,we are about to start installation,just wanted to drop you a few line to thank you for your extra-ordinary support and love,i give you my word i won't let us down.I will take new pics with the dental chairs and some of my workers,'will email you the pics later in the evening
Your love for life
Tony
You can bet I never received those pictures, he just couldn't get online after he sent me this email!
More chat about "our" prediciment:
debimarzoline: Why is the time killing you?
debimarzoline: And who has your passport?
Tony Alves: cos i am tired
Tony Alves: my clients have my passport,they fear i will sneak and run
debimarzoline: And how come you don't have a line of credit with your suppliers?
debimarzoline: Good Lord...do you always have the worst luck or is just since you met me?
Tony Alves: sweetheart those are some of the mistakes i will rectify
debimarzoline: You can cross the border into Iraq and grab a US soldier.
Tony Alves: i thought about all of that me not having a line of credit and relaize how bad a bussiness man i have been
debimarzoline: But they won't work with you for all the business you have done with them?
Tony Alves: and i hate myself for making you and Inessa go tru all these troubles
debimarzoline: Don't hate yourself, that serves no purpose.
debimarzoline: We have to rely on our strengths, all of us.
debimarzoline: And Inessa has perserverance on her side, I will give her that.
debimarzoline: And she knows how to pull the guilt strings too
debimarzoline: We have to be positive and resourceful.
debimarzoline: And I have to pray for guidance.
debimarzoline: And you need to buck up.
debimarzoline: Hello, comments?
Tony Alves: no comment sweetheart
Tony Alves: i am just lamenting
debimarzoline: Well, quit lamenting and brain storm with me
debimarzoline: These clients will still not budge on the money thing? B/c that is just lame.
debimarzoline: Be straight with me
Tony Alves: yes they wont budge,if they did we wont be having this conversation
debimarzoline: So, what do they think, you are just gonna hang around until something happens?
Tony Alves: yes they expect me to contact my people
debimarzoline: And your people are...?
Tony Alves: like my family or friends
debimarzoline: I am guessing it is Inessa, your uncle and me?
debimarzoline: Come on now, no associates?
debimarzoline: Colleagues?
Tony Alves: well
Tony Alves: i am a loner i told you that before,you see the more you ask me quyestions the more i feel terrible,cos if i was able to handle all of these without seeking for your help,you wont be digging into me like this,and it hurts my feelings as man (it is really starting to piss me off at this point that he is acting all weak and shit)
debimarzoline: I am sorry, I am just trying to find a solution.
debimarzoline: I don't mean to hurt you but I want you here with me and I will do whatever I can to make that happen. I told you I was tough
Tony Alves: i understand
Tony Alves: i will try to hold on
Tony Alves: you call your retiremnt people and ask them how long it will take,let them know time is of the essence,and i will also see hwta my uncle can do
Tony Alves: meanwhile i will try to hold on
debimarzoline: You can do this, baby, I have all the faith in you. I will try to raise whatever funds I can.
debimarzoline: Don't try, do.
Tony Alves: i will try my love
debimarzoline: I am not kidding about the blood thing, I have to call and see how much they pay. I know someone who put themselves through school that way.
debimarzoline: So, what do you do all day?
debimarzoline: And what are you working on? You said something about that earlier.
Tony Alves: it is my uncle that i am working on
Tony Alves: i mean hoping on what he is working on works out
debimarzoline: I wrote Inessa and told her to send whatever chairs she could as a sign of good faith.
Tony Alves: ok
debimarzoline: That is the only thing that makes sense right now.
Tony Alves: so i can be working with that while we wait
debimarzoline: Yes, and why were you so adamant about not doing that earlier??
Tony Alves: cos of what use will it be
Tony Alves: when she sneds them and still ia m not allowed to leave
debimarzoline: A sign of good faith
debimarzoline: Is the wiring fixed on those bases?
Tony Alves: yes
debimarzoline: I haven't sent you a song today, I haven't been in the mood. You are probably sick of them anyway.
Tony Alves: i am never sick of anything from you (Especially any money I sent)
Tony Alves: but i wnat mor ethan the song,if you can put yourself in a box and send yourself over here i will be whole
debimarzoline: I love you.
debimarzoline: I just hope God still loves me and I am not just a big fool.
Tony Alves: oh no you just didnt say that
debimarzoline: Sorry, I take that back
Tony Alves: sweetehart you cant take it back,you just but confirmed all i have been saying
debimarzoline: No, I haven't
debimarzoline: I'm just missing what we should be thinking about now
debimarzoline: And not all this crap.
Tony Alves: thanks,i love you
Tony Alves: i wnat to go now,i need to take a nap
debimarzoline: I am just feeling beat down
Tony Alves: and think ok Of a way to get him more money!!
debimarzoline: Okay, I love you....
Okay, I wasn't really going to sell my blood but it was my way of showing him how desperate I had become now, too. At this point I was running on pure adrenaline and time was ticking....
We talk this night on the phone and my Tony is so thankful for the money and support I have shown and for the support from Inessa that he loses it and begins crying and telling me he will make it up to me, he will make me happy everyday of my life because of the rare love I have shown him (this is where his "Tony" award comes in). I am telling him he needs to stay strong and that I told him I had a lot of love to give and I can't wait until he is out of ther and we are together, blah, blah, blah...did I mean it you bet...Did he? Not a word, not a tear!
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
OK.I just finished speaking to my dad,he said he is done installing the 5 dental chairs i sent over.This is cheering news,i can't wait to have the remaining 2 dental chairs sent over so he can get done and get the hell out of there
Inessa
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
Is 6pm here in UK, don't worry about the time,as long as you are able to send the money today,i can pick it up tonite or first thing tomorrow morning,then pay for the chairs and have them sent over to him so he can get them sunday morning.According to my dad he said he can finish up with the two chairs sunday and then leave Iran monday.
Inessa
I actually have gotten the money for this last payment but I am holding back to see if the pictures ever come through or I get any other proof that this is real...I have been very suspicious for the past two weeks but trying to play it cool just in case...
Second to the last online chat I have with my love, Tony Alves aka THE SCAMMER
debimarzoline: Hey honey
Tony Alves: my enternal love
debimarzoline: How are you?
debimarzoline: I was upstairs & didn't hear the phone. I was watching a movie
Tony Alves: m very well and you?
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: Ya know what I would like is some new pictures of you, do you have any?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: i am here sweetheart
Tony Alves: very well,i guess you need that as a proof right
debimarzoline: Proof of what?
debimarzoline: I am just needing some new pictures.
debimarzoline: There were some things I was going to tell you when you were here...but I need to tell you now.
Tony Alves: i am all ears
debimarzoline: I haven't been all that well, in fact sometimes I count sugeries to put me to sleep...
Tony Alves: OMG
debimarzoline: I went to the doctors today and had an MRI on my neck b/c of the pain I have been having and I may be facing another one.
Tony Alves: when is the surgery
debimarzoline: I don't know yet but I am going to be really strapped for the co-pay so as soon as I can get some money back, I can schedule it. See what I mean about keeping me...I am damaged.
Tony Alves: you are not damaged,dont ever let me hear you say that
debimarzoline: I have been pretty stable the past few years except for the blood clots but I take meds for that.
debimarzoline: I developed blood clots in my leg and lungs but I was fortunate.
Tony Alves: i am sorri you had to go tru this
Tony Alves: say no more my love... i cant wait to be out of here
Tony Alves: i must be by you
debimarzoline: Thankfully I quit smoking b/c that wasn't helping.
debimarzoline: I can't wait either.
Tony Alves: iam so sorry.... the best thing for us is for us to be together so ic an take care of you
debimarzoline: What did your dad die of, he must have been very young?
Tony Alves: yeah he was my love
Tony Alves: he was hypertensive
debimarzoline: Oh, that is a shame and your mom?
Tony Alves: cancer
debimarzoline: Did you take care of her?
debimarzoline: Or did your wife?
Tony Alves: we both did sweetheart
debimarzoline: She must have been ill a long time.
debimarzoline: How is your blood pressure?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: lol
Tony Alves: i am very good
Tony Alves: no history of hypertension
Tony Alves: i am good my love
debimarzoline: I had a dream about your wife...what was her name?
Tony Alves: can we talk about this when i come next week please
Tony Alves: so tell me what did you eat
debimarzoline: Nothing, not too hungry
debimarzoline: I was thinking about you raising cash and I thought maybe you should cash in your plane ticket and buy a new one when you are out of there.
debimarzoline: Don't you even want to know what my dream was about?
Tony Alves: ok tell me about the dream
debimarzoline: Wow, twist my arm...she was happy and giving me permission to love you.
Tony Alves:
debimarzoline: And the plane ticket idea?
debimarzoline: And what do I need proof of..that is insulting..
Tony Alves: the proof thing i am making a bad joke... was teasing you
debimarzoline: Okay. Oh and I have decided to pursue criminal charges against those bad guys in Spain...just so you know.
debimarzoline: In case I have to tell them the whole story your name might have to come up are you cool with that?
Tony Alves: very well
Tony Alves: i was going to do that with you when i come over
Tony Alves: can we do this when i come please
debimarzoline: Why wait? I am not sure when you will be here truthfully.
Tony Alves: sweetheart i will be with you next week
Tony Alves: you said by friday you will get the money right?
debimarzoline: That is what they are telling me.
debimarzoline: But if that goes south what are our options?
Tony Alves: what si south
debimarzoline: Down, bad, not happening
Tony Alves: while will it go bad
Tony Alves: i mena why
Tony Alves: Inessa is handling it
debimarzoline: Honey, with our luck who knows...
debimarzoline: She is handling what?
Tony Alves: Inessa is in charge and she has bette rluck than us
Tony Alves: the transactions
Tony Alves: and the purchase of tyeh chairs
Tony Alves: i will be getting those tonite
debimarzoline: Really? She was the one who was robbed, remember.
debimarzoline: Oooh take a picture of the million dollar chairs for me.
Tony Alves: ye si remember but i will be getting 5 chairs tonite isnt that something
debimarzoline: Yes, was my idea.
Tony Alves: sure will do that for you my love
Tony Alves: ye syour idea
Tony Alves: and she did it without telling me
Tony Alves: so it wont goi sound
Tony Alves: if you get the money across to her
debimarzoline: How much are the chairs, each, I mean?
Tony Alves: $7500
Tony Alves: some $10,000
Tony Alves: some $5000
Tony Alves: some $14,000
debimarzoline: Wow, I thought they would be more.
debimarzoline: Okay, I guess some are.
Tony Alves: and the X ray machine is $35,000
debimarzoline: Glad that one was okay.
debimarzoline: How is your house in San Diego coming along?
Tony Alves: we will both deal with that when i come
debimarzoline: And with all these delays when do you start work in Canada??
debimarzoline: Does that cut short your time here?
Tony Alves: sweetheart Canada is September and ic an shose to start in October
Tony Alves: right now i need rest with my fsamily
Tony Alves: you and Inessa
debimarzoline: Are you still only spending a few days with Inessa in London?
Tony Alves: yes my love
Tony Alves: i will later come abck and spend time with her
debimarzoline: Is she in London b/c that is what I keep putting on the WU stuff?
Tony Alves: she is In Aberdeen
debimarzoline: Scotland?
debimarzoline: It rains a lot there.
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i sens eyou hate it
debimarzoline: No, I thought it was lovely, I loved the heather but it rained as soon as I crossed the Scottish border.
Tony Alves: hahahahahahaa
debimarzoline: What is the name of her school there, I kept picturing it in England?
Tony Alves: Napier University
debimarzoline: Never heard of it lol
Tony Alves: you can google it
debimarzoline: I'm sure I can. Is this her first year there?
debimarzoline: Did she settle in well?
debimarzoline: Since she only writes me when we are talking money...
Tony Alves: all that will chnage now
debimarzoline: Why?
Tony Alves: cos this will all be over with
debimarzoline: Swear to God!!!
Tony Alves: I SWEAR TO GOD ALMIGHTY
Tony Alves: i am sorry you have lost confidence in me
debimarzoline: It's not just that, I found some of the emails you sent me, verbatim on a website and I am heartsick
Tony Alves: are you kidding me
debimarzoline: Nope
Tony Alves: i searcehd online for some of those letters
Tony Alves: love letters
Tony Alves: and i edited them cos its
Tony Alves: and express m,y feelings to you,i am sorry ,i didnt know it is a crime to do that
debimarzoline: Did you go to Pigbusters.com...that is where I found them.
Tony Alves: nope
debimarzoline: Its not a crime but they are like from the fraud handbook.
Tony Alves: can we have this conversation next week please
debimarzoline: Oh sure.
debimarzoline: What were you going to say??
Tony Alves: \i need you to to hold strong and have faith,i told you i wont let you down and i wont
Tony Alves: i love you and i can only show it to you
Tony Alves: i am tired of telling you
debimarzoline: Remember what you told me when we first started...you threatened me wit God.
debimarzoline: If I hurt you, you threatened me with God.
debimarzoline: I am so scared right now I don't know what to do....I have gotten to know you and I hope no one would be that evil
debimarzoline: I love tha man I have gotten to know, don't mess that up, okay?
debimarzoline: Using your words...
Tony Alves: i wont mess it up
Tony Alves: and i am sorry for puting you in this tight situation that you are now questioning my commitemnt to you
debimarzoline: Because I will tell you now I will curl up into a ball and I don't know if I could come out of it.
Tony Alves: i will be by your side to take careof you
Tony Alves: i am tired
debimarzoline: I will want to die.
Tony Alves: so tired
debimarzoline: I know you are...
Tony Alves: and the leat thing you need now is negative thoughts
Tony Alves: cos it will doyou no good
debimarzoline: Its not negative thoughts, it is hurt
Tony Alves: the only wya i can make you happy os fr me to be with you next week
debimarzoline: I need you so much
Tony Alves: i need you too
Tony Alves: so lets comeplete this task together,you,me and Inessa
Tony Alves: so i can be with you all next week ok
debimarzoline: Okay.
Tony Alves: in the meantime today i will take new pics,with the detal chairs and the dental centre
Tony Alves: will email them to you tomorrow
debimarzoline: Thank you
debimarzoline: Thank you for putting my mind at ease and my heart.
debimarzoline: And you, I need new pictures, my old ones are crinkled.
Tony Alves: sure,you will get brand new pics
debimarzoline: I need your hairy chest.
debimarzoline: But if you have a hairy back we are waxing that...
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i love you so much and i will not hurt you,I PROMISE YOU WITH MY LIFE,just hang in there for few more days.m coming to take care of you... will take all your pains away and you will take mine away too.we both need each other badly,we both are the medicine we need
debimarzoline: Okay, baby I am holding you to it. I love you so much, too
Tony Alves is typing...
Tony Alves: go rest your tired body.... be at peace,worry not and sleep.will talk with you tomorrow. love you bunch...
debimarzoline: Bye for now, baby
I admit I was laying it on thick in the beginning of this chat but I wanted to see if he had any heart or conscious at all turns out...NO! All he does is react to whatever you say to him, in a loving and understanding way, no with any truth or honesty but with wha the victim wants to hear. And the "Bye for now" ending to most of our conversations whether by phone or chat was all him....he would say "not bye but bye for now", isn't that just adorable?
Now the last of my money jhas been delivered and I receive the following email from my new daughter, Inessa:
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you - Jul 24
Hi Debbie,
It is done,all we need do is wait for him to get done and get the hell out of Iran
I will keep intouch
Inessa
Followed by my email:
Re: Today debi1954 to alves_inessa - Jul 24
Inessa,
Let me know as soon as you hear something as apparently he has no internet connection. thanks!
Debi
A day has gone by and I have heard nothing, I can't get through on the phone and when I do hear the familiar ring it is not answered, I send the following email to both of them:
Closure debi1954 to alvest101 and alves_inessa - Jul 25
Dear Family,
I could use some closure. A simple thank you and goodbye would suffice.
Love and peace,
Debi
Finally, after this email is received I get a voice mail on my cell, it is Tony saying he knows I have been trying to get in touch with him and he has good news...he is done, the job is complete. I feel like an ass because he was probably busy finishing the job while I was whining but I got a response so there ya go.I talk to him Sunday night and it is his Monday morning and he says he is meeting with his clients at 11:00AM, I ask him if he is excited...no duh! I ask him to please call me as soon as he is in London which should be around the middle of my Monday, July 26th, 2010......
My last happy day....so far.
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