I was sitting at my desk at work on Monday, July 26, 2010 and it was about 1:00PM when I got the call on my cell I had been waiting for. It was Tony and he announced he was in London, I was so excited I was dancing around my office and we were both laughing and being silly just for the pure joy. He said I have someone here who wants to say hello and he put "our daughter" Inessa on the phone. I was sooo excited to talk to her and she sounded so happy too and I told her I couldn't wait to meet her. She put Daddy back on the phone and he told me he would be online later so we could chat, which at the time I thought was weird but I figured he would have time to kill waiting for his flight to me, so I told him to go have a good time with his daughter and I would talk to him later. After many I love yous we hung up. What follows is our last online chat:
debimarzoline: Hi Baby
Tony Alves: my love we did it
debimarzoline: I know, I know, I know!!!
debimarzoline: I was so excited the rest of the day, I was floating
debimarzoline: Are you trying to stay awake until your flight?
Tony Alves: lol not really
Tony Alves: there is a small problem my love
debimarzoline: What?
Tony Alves: i couldnt wait for them to pay me
Tony Alves: they were going to pay me tuesday
Tony Alves: i told them to wire the money into my account
Tony Alves: which i know they will
Tony Alves: i just couldnt stay one mpore day there
Tony Alves: i had to leave
debimarzoline: I know ...
Tony Alves: and i didnt tell you
Tony Alves: my flight money
Tony Alves: i cancel my flight and used the money to complete
Tony Alves: the money for the chairs
Tony Alves: so i am gonna go to Turku today
Tony Alves: get money,then fly back and be wioth you on thursday
debimarzoline: Okay.
Tony Alves: please dont be mad ok, i just had to make the best decision cos i needed to get the hell out of there
debimarzoline: I know...
debimarzoline: I am not mad just disappointed.
debimarzoline: Why do you have to go all the way there to get money?
Tony Alves: cos i must witrhdraw money across the counter remember sweetheart
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: So you will email me the new flight details>
Tony Alves: yes sweetheart i will
Tony Alves: we should all be thankful i am out of there
debimarzoline: I am not going to work.
debimarzoline: I am thankful
Tony Alves: and i cant wiat to get home to withdraw cahs,let me start taking care of you all as a man
debimarzoline: That is not what is important, being together is...
debimarzoline: Where are you know, still at the airport?
Tony Alves: yes sweetheart
debimarzoline: When does your flight leave? How long does it take you to get there?
Tony Alves: 4 hours my love
debimarzoline: Why didn't you just call me and tell me?
debimarzoline: And pay off your credit card so you can use that...
debimarzoline: Please.
debimarzoline: It will be good to be in your own bed, yes?
Tony Alves: damn the bed
Tony Alves: i am going home for financial reason\
Tony Alves: i have debt to pay
debimarzoline: I know...
Tony Alves: i cnat come to you empty handed
Tony Alves: i need to pay off the debt you have incured on my behalf
debimarzoline: I will wait for you whether you are empty handed or not.
debimarzoline: What did Inessa say?
Tony Alves: she is happy
Tony Alves: and she alos said i made the right decsion
Tony Alves: that it wiull be a bad idea to go to you with nothing
Tony Alves: that no matter the love we ahre
Tony Alves: i have got bills to take care of
debimarzoline: You can't carry cash around like that though??
debimarzoline: Doesn't your bank have checks?
debimarzoline: Or cheques?
Tony Alves: they do
debimarzoline: I will need to re-do the reservation again too
Tony Alves: but what i wnat to do is i will wire the funds to you
Tony Alves: pay off my credit
Tony Alves: then come
Tony Alves: and i will also carry checks
debimarzoline: God, I thought we were past all of this money stuff.
Tony Alves: but it will take almost forver for finish checks to clear in US
debimarzoline: I hate this part...
Tony Alves: i hate it more thanh you do but it is a reality
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: Say hi to your uncle for me
Tony Alves: i love you
Tony Alves: i am sorry
Tony Alves: but it is what it is
Tony Alves: i cant come to you looking like i am no man
debimarzoline: You are my man
Tony Alves: i cant look you in the face and not be able to take care of the bills you have incured on my behlaf
Tony Alves: please understand these things from my point
debimarzoline: I am, I am just a little sad right now.
debimarzoline: But I will be fine.
debimarzoline: Being the brave little soldier that I am
debimarzoline: Its just two more days, right??
Tony Alves: yes my love
Tony Alves: please take solace in the fact that i am out of Iran
Tony Alves: it was very imnportnat for me to be out of there
debimarzoline: I do, I am overjoyed for that.
debimarzoline: If nothing else happened, I am thankful for that fact.
Tony Alves: nothing else will happen
Tony Alves: what can possibly happen
debimarzoline: Nothing
debimarzoline: I love you
debimarzoline: Come to me as quickly as you can, my love
Tony Alves: i will i give you my word
Tony Alves: just two days
Tony Alves: two more days my love
debimarzoline: You go and do what you must and I will be here.
debimarzoline: But I can't go to work, I will use these 2 days to relax.
Tony Alves: relax and look beautiful for me sweetheart
debimarzoline: I have to return to work on August 10 b/c I have to go to court.
debimarzoline: I will try...lol
Tony Alves: court
Tony Alves: wats up woith coiurt
debimarzoline: I have to go to court on one of our cases at work.
debimarzoline: I am going with our attorney and the worker on the case.
debimarzoline: Unless they continue it then I am free.
debimarzoline: I am hoping they settle before the court date.
Tony Alves: oh ok
Tony Alves: very well then
Tony Alves: and i am gonna stay more than the days i said i will stay with you
debimarzoline: There you go with the Very Well Than...
Tony Alves: i dont mind you gpoing to work and couming home to me lol
debimarzoline: Okay, I would like that.
Tony Alves: i would like that too
debimarzoline: We can do lunch, I can take you to work for show and tell
debimarzoline: Oh baby, I am missing you
Tony Alves: that will be very nice sweetheart
debimarzoline: I want to be with you so much....
Tony Alves: i want to be with you so so sos os much more than you want to be with me
Tony Alves: by the way your persian rug is right here
debimarzoline: LOL
debimarzoline: What are you going to do with it?
debimarzoline: Are you tired of carrying it around?
Tony Alves: is for you my love,am briniong it to you,i can never be tired of carrying what i bought for my love
Tony Alves: it is a pleasure carrying it around for you
debimarzoline: You are so cute, I want to keep you forever....once we get past all of this business stuff.
Tony Alves: yous ure will keep me forever cos i am yours forever and you are mine forever too
debimarzoline: Can you open a normal bank account after this??
Tony Alves: i plan on doing that as well
debimarzoline: Thank you
Tony Alves: it will take few mimnutes fdoing that
debimarzoline: We are missing all of the good movies so you best hurry up and get here.
debimarzoline: You are missing good thunder storms too
Tony Alves: hahahahaa
Tony Alves: what i am missing the most is the kissing and cuddling
debimarzoline: Yes, you are.
debimarzoline: I locked my keys in the car Sunday and had to calla locksmith
debimarzoline: All of my keys and remotes
debimarzoline: I just don't normally do stuff like that...
Tony Alves: lol what were you thionking of my love
debimarzoline: You and getting you here.
debimarzoline: I had just had the car detailed and I was putting everything back and I hit the remote that locked the doors and closed the door.
debimarzoline: I knew as soon as I closed the door.
Tony Alves: i am sorry for all the troubles sweetheart
debimarzoline: Well, I found I had another remote...which is now in the house.
debimarzoline: Will you call me when you get home?
Tony Alves: you know i will my love
Tony Alves: you know i will
debimarzoline: It was so nice to hear a clear line on the phone today.
debimarzoline: When are you leaving on that jet plane?
Tony Alves: much later in the day sweetheart
Tony Alves: around 4pm
debimarzoline: What will you do until then?
debimarzoline: That is like hours from now, right?
debimarzoline: 12 hours
Tony Alves: i will keep reating
Tony Alves: resting
debimarzoline: At the airport?
debimarzoline: Did you fall asleep on me, honey?
Tony Alves: nope
Tony Alves: in a small cheap hotel\
Tony Alves: close to the airport
Tony Alves: honestly my eyes are heavy my love
debimarzoline: Okay, honey...
debimarzoline: I love you, rest up
Tony Alves: i love you more
Tony Alves: so sosososo much more
Tony Alves: i will call you when i get home
Tony Alves: i love you so much,just hang in there ok
debimarzoline: Okay, my love.
Tony Alves: just 2 more days
debimarzoline: I will be waiting.
Tony Alves: love you lots
Tony Alves is typing...
Tony Alves: bye for now
debimarzoline: Love you, bye for now
Early Tuesday (July 27, 2010 on what was to be his arrival date here) morning I get another early morning phone call but I am on vacation and the cell phone is downstairs so I don't pick it up immediately. When I finally see there is a voice mail from who else, Tony the Scammer. He needs me to call him ASAP (that always means money), his message basically says Call me, Call me, Call me. So, I call him and he is so ashamed that he is calling with this request that he can't say it and has to call me back. This is not a good sign. He is calling because from the night before to this morning apparently he realizes he doesn't have any money to get to Finland where ALL his money is and he needs me to wire him 800 GBP. I tell him flatly no, I only have the money I need for my bills. So, we end the call and I start looking online for flights from London to Helsinki which I can get for 200GBP, I call him back and tell him this and he says (I kid you not) "that is for coach, I don't fly coach" I said fairly loudly it is a 2 hour and 7 min flight you can fly coach. He tells me he has taken all the information off his lap top and has sold it for the money to get home and asks me just to send him the 200GBP, again I say no, I will buy the ticket but not send the money. Okay, this is getting lamer and lamer by the minute. We end this call with I Love Yous and we will figure it out. I call back an hour later and tell him to sell the (non-existent) Persian rug, he says thank you and we hang up. At one point he tells me he is calling me from a payphone ?? But I call him back on his phone and he answers. I send Inessa an email:
Get your Dad Home debi1954 to alves_inessa - Jul 27
Inessa,
I know you are good at this, now you need to get your dad home. Let me know what you can do.
Love, Debi
Ya know she was so good at getting him out of Iran, this should be a no brainer. But , of course, I never hear back from her.
Finally, I call him back....and this is my final. I told him don't call me again until you get home, I can't take it anymore, you are killing me (I say this over and over), I am done. During my rant he keeps saying I'm sorry, I am so sorry, I'm sorry, you have my word, I will call you as soon as I get home. And , of course, he never calls. I want to say the end but I can't.
Several days go by and I call his number, I get a message saying this number is temporarily disabled but you can leave a message. So I figure that is that, I am the biggest fool in the world. I go away to my son's house for the weekend, crying my eyes out and telling my story. When I return, on Monday night just for fun, I try his number and the ass answers, I was so surprised I said "Sorry wrong number" boy isn't that the truth. But he knew it was me.
And then since I want to turn this blog into a book at some point, I think I wonder if he would cooperate with me, so tonight I called him and he still has the same number, what a moron. I said hi Tony, I was wondering if you would talk to me for a minute and he agrees, I said I don't want to freak you out (but yes, I do) but I am writing a book and wonder if you would cooperate with me to tell his side of the story, all along he is saying okay and I tell him I know what this was and that I have been in contact with SO and DL two other of his victims (it is sort of a lie, I have only been in contact with one but I know about the other one) and he hung up on me...the nerve! I tried calling back a few times but he won't pick up....some people's children. I didn't even get a chance to tell him about the blog, but I hope he reads it if he has time between victims.
I will be posting more about how I found the other victims...Stay tuned. Debi
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