I was sitting at my desk at work on Monday, July 26, 2010 and it was about 1:00PM when I got the call on my cell I had been waiting for. It was Tony and he announced he was in London, I was so excited I was dancing around my office and we were both laughing and being silly just for the pure joy. He said I have someone here who wants to say hello and he put "our daughter" Inessa on the phone. I was sooo excited to talk to her and she sounded so happy too and I told her I couldn't wait to meet her. She put Daddy back on the phone and he told me he would be online later so we could chat, which at the time I thought was weird but I figured he would have time to kill waiting for his flight to me, so I told him to go have a good time with his daughter and I would talk to him later. After many I love yous we hung up. What follows is our last online chat:
debimarzoline: Hi Baby
Tony Alves: my love we did it
debimarzoline: I know, I know, I know!!!
debimarzoline: I was so excited the rest of the day, I was floating
debimarzoline: Are you trying to stay awake until your flight?
Tony Alves: lol not really
Tony Alves: there is a small problem my love
debimarzoline: What?
Tony Alves: i couldnt wait for them to pay me
Tony Alves: they were going to pay me tuesday
Tony Alves: i told them to wire the money into my account
Tony Alves: which i know they will
Tony Alves: i just couldnt stay one mpore day there
Tony Alves: i had to leave
debimarzoline: I know ...
Tony Alves: and i didnt tell you
Tony Alves: my flight money
Tony Alves: i cancel my flight and used the money to complete
Tony Alves: the money for the chairs
Tony Alves: so i am gonna go to Turku today
Tony Alves: get money,then fly back and be wioth you on thursday
debimarzoline: Okay.
Tony Alves: please dont be mad ok, i just had to make the best decision cos i needed to get the hell out of there
debimarzoline: I know...
debimarzoline: I am not mad just disappointed.
debimarzoline: Why do you have to go all the way there to get money?
Tony Alves: cos i must witrhdraw money across the counter remember sweetheart
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: So you will email me the new flight details>
Tony Alves: yes sweetheart i will
Tony Alves: we should all be thankful i am out of there
debimarzoline: I am not going to work.
debimarzoline: I am thankful
Tony Alves: and i cant wiat to get home to withdraw cahs,let me start taking care of you all as a man
debimarzoline: That is not what is important, being together is...
debimarzoline: Where are you know, still at the airport?
Tony Alves: yes sweetheart
debimarzoline: When does your flight leave? How long does it take you to get there?
Tony Alves: 4 hours my love
debimarzoline: Why didn't you just call me and tell me?
debimarzoline: And pay off your credit card so you can use that...
debimarzoline: Please.
debimarzoline: It will be good to be in your own bed, yes?
Tony Alves: damn the bed
Tony Alves: i am going home for financial reason\
Tony Alves: i have debt to pay
debimarzoline: I know...
Tony Alves: i cnat come to you empty handed
Tony Alves: i need to pay off the debt you have incured on my behalf
debimarzoline: I will wait for you whether you are empty handed or not.
debimarzoline: What did Inessa say?
Tony Alves: she is happy
Tony Alves: and she alos said i made the right decsion
Tony Alves: that it wiull be a bad idea to go to you with nothing
Tony Alves: that no matter the love we ahre
Tony Alves: i have got bills to take care of
debimarzoline: You can't carry cash around like that though??
debimarzoline: Doesn't your bank have checks?
debimarzoline: Or cheques?
Tony Alves: they do
debimarzoline: I will need to re-do the reservation again too
Tony Alves: but what i wnat to do is i will wire the funds to you
Tony Alves: pay off my credit
Tony Alves: then come
Tony Alves: and i will also carry checks
debimarzoline: God, I thought we were past all of this money stuff.
Tony Alves: but it will take almost forver for finish checks to clear in US
debimarzoline: I hate this part...
Tony Alves: i hate it more thanh you do but it is a reality
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: Say hi to your uncle for me
Tony Alves: i love you
Tony Alves: i am sorry
Tony Alves: but it is what it is
Tony Alves: i cant come to you looking like i am no man
debimarzoline: You are my man
Tony Alves: i cant look you in the face and not be able to take care of the bills you have incured on my behlaf
Tony Alves: please understand these things from my point
debimarzoline: I am, I am just a little sad right now.
debimarzoline: But I will be fine.
debimarzoline: Being the brave little soldier that I am
debimarzoline: Its just two more days, right??
Tony Alves: yes my love
Tony Alves: please take solace in the fact that i am out of Iran
Tony Alves: it was very imnportnat for me to be out of there
debimarzoline: I do, I am overjoyed for that.
debimarzoline: If nothing else happened, I am thankful for that fact.
Tony Alves: nothing else will happen
Tony Alves: what can possibly happen
debimarzoline: Nothing
debimarzoline: I love you
debimarzoline: Come to me as quickly as you can, my love
Tony Alves: i will i give you my word
Tony Alves: just two days
Tony Alves: two more days my love
debimarzoline: You go and do what you must and I will be here.
debimarzoline: But I can't go to work, I will use these 2 days to relax.
Tony Alves: relax and look beautiful for me sweetheart
debimarzoline: I have to return to work on August 10 b/c I have to go to court.
debimarzoline: I will try...lol
Tony Alves: court
Tony Alves: wats up woith coiurt
debimarzoline: I have to go to court on one of our cases at work.
debimarzoline: I am going with our attorney and the worker on the case.
debimarzoline: Unless they continue it then I am free.
debimarzoline: I am hoping they settle before the court date.
Tony Alves: oh ok
Tony Alves: very well then
Tony Alves: and i am gonna stay more than the days i said i will stay with you
debimarzoline: There you go with the Very Well Than...
Tony Alves: i dont mind you gpoing to work and couming home to me lol
debimarzoline: Okay, I would like that.
Tony Alves: i would like that too
debimarzoline: We can do lunch, I can take you to work for show and tell
debimarzoline: Oh baby, I am missing you
Tony Alves: that will be very nice sweetheart
debimarzoline: I want to be with you so much....
Tony Alves: i want to be with you so so sos os much more than you want to be with me
Tony Alves: by the way your persian rug is right here
debimarzoline: LOL
debimarzoline: What are you going to do with it?
debimarzoline: Are you tired of carrying it around?
Tony Alves: is for you my love,am briniong it to you,i can never be tired of carrying what i bought for my love
Tony Alves: it is a pleasure carrying it around for you
debimarzoline: You are so cute, I want to keep you forever....once we get past all of this business stuff.
Tony Alves: yous ure will keep me forever cos i am yours forever and you are mine forever too
debimarzoline: Can you open a normal bank account after this??
Tony Alves: i plan on doing that as well
debimarzoline: Thank you
Tony Alves: it will take few mimnutes fdoing that
debimarzoline: We are missing all of the good movies so you best hurry up and get here.
debimarzoline: You are missing good thunder storms too
Tony Alves: hahahahaa
Tony Alves: what i am missing the most is the kissing and cuddling
debimarzoline: Yes, you are.
debimarzoline: I locked my keys in the car Sunday and had to calla locksmith
debimarzoline: All of my keys and remotes
debimarzoline: I just don't normally do stuff like that...
Tony Alves: lol what were you thionking of my love
debimarzoline: You and getting you here.
debimarzoline: I had just had the car detailed and I was putting everything back and I hit the remote that locked the doors and closed the door.
debimarzoline: I knew as soon as I closed the door.
Tony Alves: i am sorry for all the troubles sweetheart
debimarzoline: Well, I found I had another remote...which is now in the house.
debimarzoline: Will you call me when you get home?
Tony Alves: you know i will my love
Tony Alves: you know i will
debimarzoline: It was so nice to hear a clear line on the phone today.
debimarzoline: When are you leaving on that jet plane?
Tony Alves: much later in the day sweetheart
Tony Alves: around 4pm
debimarzoline: What will you do until then?
debimarzoline: That is like hours from now, right?
debimarzoline: 12 hours
Tony Alves: i will keep reating
Tony Alves: resting
debimarzoline: At the airport?
debimarzoline: Did you fall asleep on me, honey?
Tony Alves: nope
Tony Alves: in a small cheap hotel\
Tony Alves: close to the airport
Tony Alves: honestly my eyes are heavy my love
debimarzoline: Okay, honey...
debimarzoline: I love you, rest up
Tony Alves: i love you more
Tony Alves: so sosososo much more
Tony Alves: i will call you when i get home
Tony Alves: i love you so much,just hang in there ok
debimarzoline: Okay, my love.
Tony Alves: just 2 more days
debimarzoline: I will be waiting.
Tony Alves: love you lots
Tony Alves is typing...
Tony Alves: bye for now
debimarzoline: Love you, bye for now
Early Tuesday (July 27, 2010 on what was to be his arrival date here) morning I get another early morning phone call but I am on vacation and the cell phone is downstairs so I don't pick it up immediately. When I finally see there is a voice mail from who else, Tony the Scammer. He needs me to call him ASAP (that always means money), his message basically says Call me, Call me, Call me. So, I call him and he is so ashamed that he is calling with this request that he can't say it and has to call me back. This is not a good sign. He is calling because from the night before to this morning apparently he realizes he doesn't have any money to get to Finland where ALL his money is and he needs me to wire him 800 GBP. I tell him flatly no, I only have the money I need for my bills. So, we end the call and I start looking online for flights from London to Helsinki which I can get for 200GBP, I call him back and tell him this and he says (I kid you not) "that is for coach, I don't fly coach" I said fairly loudly it is a 2 hour and 7 min flight you can fly coach. He tells me he has taken all the information off his lap top and has sold it for the money to get home and asks me just to send him the 200GBP, again I say no, I will buy the ticket but not send the money. Okay, this is getting lamer and lamer by the minute. We end this call with I Love Yous and we will figure it out. I call back an hour later and tell him to sell the (non-existent) Persian rug, he says thank you and we hang up. At one point he tells me he is calling me from a payphone ?? But I call him back on his phone and he answers. I send Inessa an email:
Get your Dad Home debi1954 to alves_inessa - Jul 27
Inessa,
I know you are good at this, now you need to get your dad home. Let me know what you can do.
Love, Debi
Ya know she was so good at getting him out of Iran, this should be a no brainer. But , of course, I never hear back from her.
Finally, I call him back....and this is my final. I told him don't call me again until you get home, I can't take it anymore, you are killing me (I say this over and over), I am done. During my rant he keeps saying I'm sorry, I am so sorry, I'm sorry, you have my word, I will call you as soon as I get home. And , of course, he never calls. I want to say the end but I can't.
Several days go by and I call his number, I get a message saying this number is temporarily disabled but you can leave a message. So I figure that is that, I am the biggest fool in the world. I go away to my son's house for the weekend, crying my eyes out and telling my story. When I return, on Monday night just for fun, I try his number and the ass answers, I was so surprised I said "Sorry wrong number" boy isn't that the truth. But he knew it was me.
And then since I want to turn this blog into a book at some point, I think I wonder if he would cooperate with me, so tonight I called him and he still has the same number, what a moron. I said hi Tony, I was wondering if you would talk to me for a minute and he agrees, I said I don't want to freak you out (but yes, I do) but I am writing a book and wonder if you would cooperate with me to tell his side of the story, all along he is saying okay and I tell him I know what this was and that I have been in contact with SO and DL two other of his victims (it is sort of a lie, I have only been in contact with one but I know about the other one) and he hung up on me...the nerve! I tried calling back a few times but he won't pick up....some people's children. I didn't even get a chance to tell him about the blog, but I hope he reads it if he has time between victims.
I will be posting more about how I found the other victims...Stay tuned. Debi
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
My Story Part VIII The End?
I have had a small breakdown from all the stress these past few days but I wanted to complete me story and then I want to continue my work against this happening to anyone again.
Here are the new flight details I was emailed:
AIRFRANCE
Name: Dr. Anthony Mathew Alves
Departing from : London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Arriving in : Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
Departure flight : Tuesday 27 July 2010
Flights details
All times shown are local times.
Flight/Aircraft Departs Arrives Flight duration
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 06:40 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 08:55
AF1381 *
321 London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Terminal 4 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
01h15mn
Connection Connection time : 1h55mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 11:00 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 14:10
AF8990 *
767 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 3h10mn
Connection Connection time : 01h05mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:15 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:43
AF8733 *
CR9 Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
01h28mn
* Flight AF8990 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
* Flight AF8733 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
Non-smoking flight.
Total flight duration : 10h52mn
So I am excited again, it seems as though we are back on schedule. Inessa is handling getting the money together a second time, it seems she has a friend who is willing to put their car up as collateral for a loan, I figured I don't care what she does as long as I am not expected to handle it. So, this is the email I get the very next morning and coincidentally these 2 emails (the flight info and hers are send on the same day).:
July 19, 2010
OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 19
Hi Debbie,
Good afternoon or morning,i dont know what the time is there.I've called you several times today but you are not taking my calls i left you a voice mail message i dont know if you got it Please i need you to assist me in getting my dad out of IRAN,the person that was suppose to give me money today dissapointed me,i am $X500 short.I told my dad and to talk to you about it,he will just not hear of it,he said he can't in good conscience ask you for anymore help,he has put you tru more than enough troubles,he said you've borrowed $X000 already.
HE told me i should forget about everything,i should give everybody their money back and i know what that means.My dad is a very proud emotional person,he hates to be helped and when he is being helped and thing are not working according to plan he gets vey upset and depressed. Let me save you the sermon,I am begging you in the name of God,Join hands with me and help me Get my dad(your man) out of Iran.I am the one in charge of all the transaction and the sending of the Equipments to Iran,i promise you everything will be fine.
Please,please help me get the $X500 and send the money directly to me
kindly send the money in two fold(western union $X500 and money gram $X000)
Inessa
And following the same pattern, I immediately call Tony, my love, and tell him about this email. Of course, he is incensed that Inessa has again gone behind his back to ask me for money when he has explicitly told her not to...I go into problem solving mode again and come up with an idea: That nights chat with Tony:
Tony Alves: hi honey
debimarzoline: Hi Honey, sorry I woke you so early but I am in problem solving mode.
debimarzoline: Anything new on your front.
Tony Alves: its ok sweetheart,you have nothing to applogise for
Tony Alves: nothing new
debimarzoline: I can earn the money but it will take me awhile. There is a place in Reno that buys blood, I just have to find out their criteria, I run on the anemic side.
debimarzoline: And I have some jewelry I can pawn
Tony Alves: it is the time that is killing me
Tony Alves: my uncle can get the funds in 2 weeks
Tony Alves: but i cant survuve 2 weeks i have to be blunt and honest with you
debimarzoline: And I was going to see how long it would take to make a withdrawal on one of my IRA's
debimarzoline: Why not??
debimarzoline: You can do anything for two weeks
Tony Alves: what is IRA?
debimarzoline: A retirement account
Tony Alves: oh ok
debimarzoline: When I started this horrendous school schedule I didn't think I could do it but someone told me you can survive anything for 4 months and I did
debimarzoline: Then I did it another 4 months
Tony Alves: hmmmmmmmmmmmm you odnt understand,and i wnat to be with you
Tony Alves: is killing me
Tony Alves: i hate it to see you to begin to have some doubts
debimarzoline: Baby, you can do this....I am not having doubts but you need to man up! LOL
debimarzoline: I want to be with you too but I can wait for you, can you wait for me??
debimarzoline: You won't die because I am here waiting....!!!
debimarzoline: You big stubborn Fin!!
debimarzoline: Just make everything right and it will be perfect.
debimarzoline: Why do you say I am having doubts?
Tony Alves: how long will it take for you to make withdrawal from your retirememnt account Right to the heart of the matter
debimarzoline: I have to call tomorrow but it could be a week or more if they let me.
debimarzoline: There is criteria for taking a withdrawal and a penalty.
Tony Alves: what is the penalty
debimarzoline: 10%
debimarzoline: And taxes at the end of the year but I don't know if I have the kind I can borrow from/
Tony Alves: we can do that,i can take care of the taxes and 10% Still willing to do anything to get out and be with ME what a man!!
Re: OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 21
Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for all the stress my dad has caused you,to be honest with you,i am stressed out myself,i hardly sleep at night,the whole situation is killing me.I hope we get to connect later like you said but i don't know what time
Inessa
light at the end of the tunnel Tony Alves to you - Jul 22
Hi Honey,
I sure will give you more than just light next week... i just brought the dental chairs to the Dental centre,we are about to start installation,just wanted to drop you a few line to thank you for your extra-ordinary support and love,i give you my word i won't let us down.I will take new pics with the dental chairs and some of my workers,'will email you the pics later in the evening
Your love for life
Tony
You can bet I never received those pictures, he just couldn't get online after he sent me this email!
More chat about "our" prediciment:
debimarzoline: Why is the time killing you?
debimarzoline: And who has your passport?
Tony Alves: cos i am tired
Tony Alves: my clients have my passport,they fear i will sneak and run
debimarzoline: And how come you don't have a line of credit with your suppliers?
debimarzoline: Good Lord...do you always have the worst luck or is just since you met me?
Tony Alves: sweetheart those are some of the mistakes i will rectify
debimarzoline: You can cross the border into Iraq and grab a US soldier.
Tony Alves: i thought about all of that me not having a line of credit and relaize how bad a bussiness man i have been
debimarzoline: But they won't work with you for all the business you have done with them?
Tony Alves: and i hate myself for making you and Inessa go tru all these troubles
debimarzoline: Don't hate yourself, that serves no purpose.
debimarzoline: We have to rely on our strengths, all of us.
debimarzoline: And Inessa has perserverance on her side, I will give her that.
debimarzoline: And she knows how to pull the guilt strings too
debimarzoline: We have to be positive and resourceful.
debimarzoline: And I have to pray for guidance.
debimarzoline: And you need to buck up.
debimarzoline: Hello, comments?
Tony Alves: no comment sweetheart
Tony Alves: i am just lamenting
debimarzoline: Well, quit lamenting and brain storm with me
debimarzoline: These clients will still not budge on the money thing? B/c that is just lame.
debimarzoline: Be straight with me
Tony Alves: yes they wont budge,if they did we wont be having this conversation
debimarzoline: So, what do they think, you are just gonna hang around until something happens?
Tony Alves: yes they expect me to contact my people
debimarzoline: And your people are...?
Tony Alves: like my family or friends
debimarzoline: I am guessing it is Inessa, your uncle and me?
debimarzoline: Come on now, no associates?
debimarzoline: Colleagues?
Tony Alves: well
Tony Alves: i am a loner i told you that before,you see the more you ask me quyestions the more i feel terrible,cos if i was able to handle all of these without seeking for your help,you wont be digging into me like this,and it hurts my feelings as man (it is really starting to piss me off at this point that he is acting all weak and shit)
debimarzoline: I am sorry, I am just trying to find a solution.
debimarzoline: I don't mean to hurt you but I want you here with me and I will do whatever I can to make that happen. I told you I was tough
Tony Alves: i understand
Tony Alves: i will try to hold on
Tony Alves: you call your retiremnt people and ask them how long it will take,let them know time is of the essence,and i will also see hwta my uncle can do
Tony Alves: meanwhile i will try to hold on
debimarzoline: You can do this, baby, I have all the faith in you. I will try to raise whatever funds I can.
debimarzoline: Don't try, do.
Tony Alves: i will try my love
debimarzoline: I am not kidding about the blood thing, I have to call and see how much they pay. I know someone who put themselves through school that way.
debimarzoline: So, what do you do all day?
debimarzoline: And what are you working on? You said something about that earlier.
Tony Alves: it is my uncle that i am working on
Tony Alves: i mean hoping on what he is working on works out
debimarzoline: I wrote Inessa and told her to send whatever chairs she could as a sign of good faith.
Tony Alves: ok
debimarzoline: That is the only thing that makes sense right now.
Tony Alves: so i can be working with that while we wait
debimarzoline: Yes, and why were you so adamant about not doing that earlier??
Tony Alves: cos of what use will it be
Tony Alves: when she sneds them and still ia m not allowed to leave
debimarzoline: A sign of good faith
debimarzoline: Is the wiring fixed on those bases?
Tony Alves: yes
debimarzoline: I haven't sent you a song today, I haven't been in the mood. You are probably sick of them anyway.
Tony Alves: i am never sick of anything from you (Especially any money I sent)
Tony Alves: but i wnat mor ethan the song,if you can put yourself in a box and send yourself over here i will be whole
debimarzoline: I love you.
debimarzoline: I just hope God still loves me and I am not just a big fool.
Tony Alves: oh no you just didnt say that
debimarzoline: Sorry, I take that back
Tony Alves: sweetehart you cant take it back,you just but confirmed all i have been saying
debimarzoline: No, I haven't
debimarzoline: I'm just missing what we should be thinking about now
debimarzoline: And not all this crap.
Tony Alves: thanks,i love you
Tony Alves: i wnat to go now,i need to take a nap
debimarzoline: I am just feeling beat down
Tony Alves: and think ok Of a way to get him more money!!
debimarzoline: Okay, I love you....
Okay, I wasn't really going to sell my blood but it was my way of showing him how desperate I had become now, too. At this point I was running on pure adrenaline and time was ticking....
We talk this night on the phone and my Tony is so thankful for the money and support I have shown and for the support from Inessa that he loses it and begins crying and telling me he will make it up to me, he will make me happy everyday of my life because of the rare love I have shown him (this is where his "Tony" award comes in). I am telling him he needs to stay strong and that I told him I had a lot of love to give and I can't wait until he is out of ther and we are together, blah, blah, blah...did I mean it you bet...Did he? Not a word, not a tear!
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
OK.I just finished speaking to my dad,he said he is done installing the 5 dental chairs i sent over.This is cheering news,i can't wait to have the remaining 2 dental chairs sent over so he can get done and get the hell out of there
Inessa
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
Is 6pm here in UK, don't worry about the time,as long as you are able to send the money today,i can pick it up tonite or first thing tomorrow morning,then pay for the chairs and have them sent over to him so he can get them sunday morning.According to my dad he said he can finish up with the two chairs sunday and then leave Iran monday.
Inessa
I actually have gotten the money for this last payment but I am holding back to see if the pictures ever come through or I get any other proof that this is real...I have been very suspicious for the past two weeks but trying to play it cool just in case...
Second to the last online chat I have with my love, Tony Alves aka THE SCAMMER
debimarzoline: Hey honey
Tony Alves: my enternal love
debimarzoline: How are you?
debimarzoline: I was upstairs & didn't hear the phone. I was watching a movie
Tony Alves: m very well and you?
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: Ya know what I would like is some new pictures of you, do you have any?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: i am here sweetheart
Tony Alves: very well,i guess you need that as a proof right
debimarzoline: Proof of what?
debimarzoline: I am just needing some new pictures.
debimarzoline: There were some things I was going to tell you when you were here...but I need to tell you now.
Tony Alves: i am all ears
debimarzoline: I haven't been all that well, in fact sometimes I count sugeries to put me to sleep...
Tony Alves: OMG
debimarzoline: I went to the doctors today and had an MRI on my neck b/c of the pain I have been having and I may be facing another one.
Tony Alves: when is the surgery
debimarzoline: I don't know yet but I am going to be really strapped for the co-pay so as soon as I can get some money back, I can schedule it. See what I mean about keeping me...I am damaged.
Tony Alves: you are not damaged,dont ever let me hear you say that
debimarzoline: I have been pretty stable the past few years except for the blood clots but I take meds for that.
debimarzoline: I developed blood clots in my leg and lungs but I was fortunate.
Tony Alves: i am sorri you had to go tru this
Tony Alves: say no more my love... i cant wait to be out of here
Tony Alves: i must be by you
debimarzoline: Thankfully I quit smoking b/c that wasn't helping.
debimarzoline: I can't wait either.
Tony Alves: iam so sorry.... the best thing for us is for us to be together so ic an take care of you
debimarzoline: What did your dad die of, he must have been very young?
Tony Alves: yeah he was my love
Tony Alves: he was hypertensive
debimarzoline: Oh, that is a shame and your mom?
Tony Alves: cancer
debimarzoline: Did you take care of her?
debimarzoline: Or did your wife?
Tony Alves: we both did sweetheart
debimarzoline: She must have been ill a long time.
debimarzoline: How is your blood pressure?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: lol
Tony Alves: i am very good
Tony Alves: no history of hypertension
Tony Alves: i am good my love
debimarzoline: I had a dream about your wife...what was her name?
Tony Alves: can we talk about this when i come next week please
Tony Alves: so tell me what did you eat
debimarzoline: Nothing, not too hungry
debimarzoline: I was thinking about you raising cash and I thought maybe you should cash in your plane ticket and buy a new one when you are out of there.
debimarzoline: Don't you even want to know what my dream was about?
Tony Alves: ok tell me about the dream
debimarzoline: Wow, twist my arm...she was happy and giving me permission to love you.
Tony Alves:
debimarzoline: And the plane ticket idea?
debimarzoline: And what do I need proof of..that is insulting..
Tony Alves: the proof thing i am making a bad joke... was teasing you
debimarzoline: Okay. Oh and I have decided to pursue criminal charges against those bad guys in Spain...just so you know.
debimarzoline: In case I have to tell them the whole story your name might have to come up are you cool with that?
Tony Alves: very well
Tony Alves: i was going to do that with you when i come over
Tony Alves: can we do this when i come please
debimarzoline: Why wait? I am not sure when you will be here truthfully.
Tony Alves: sweetheart i will be with you next week
Tony Alves: you said by friday you will get the money right?
debimarzoline: That is what they are telling me.
debimarzoline: But if that goes south what are our options?
Tony Alves: what si south
debimarzoline: Down, bad, not happening
Tony Alves: while will it go bad
Tony Alves: i mena why
Tony Alves: Inessa is handling it
debimarzoline: Honey, with our luck who knows...
debimarzoline: She is handling what?
Tony Alves: Inessa is in charge and she has bette rluck than us
Tony Alves: the transactions
Tony Alves: and the purchase of tyeh chairs
Tony Alves: i will be getting those tonite
debimarzoline: Really? She was the one who was robbed, remember.
debimarzoline: Oooh take a picture of the million dollar chairs for me.
Tony Alves: ye si remember but i will be getting 5 chairs tonite isnt that something
debimarzoline: Yes, was my idea.
Tony Alves: sure will do that for you my love
Tony Alves: ye syour idea
Tony Alves: and she did it without telling me
Tony Alves: so it wont goi sound
Tony Alves: if you get the money across to her
debimarzoline: How much are the chairs, each, I mean?
Tony Alves: $7500
Tony Alves: some $10,000
Tony Alves: some $5000
Tony Alves: some $14,000
debimarzoline: Wow, I thought they would be more.
debimarzoline: Okay, I guess some are.
Tony Alves: and the X ray machine is $35,000
debimarzoline: Glad that one was okay.
debimarzoline: How is your house in San Diego coming along?
Tony Alves: we will both deal with that when i come
debimarzoline: And with all these delays when do you start work in Canada??
debimarzoline: Does that cut short your time here?
Tony Alves: sweetheart Canada is September and ic an shose to start in October
Tony Alves: right now i need rest with my fsamily
Tony Alves: you and Inessa
debimarzoline: Are you still only spending a few days with Inessa in London?
Tony Alves: yes my love
Tony Alves: i will later come abck and spend time with her
debimarzoline: Is she in London b/c that is what I keep putting on the WU stuff?
Tony Alves: she is In Aberdeen
debimarzoline: Scotland?
debimarzoline: It rains a lot there.
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i sens eyou hate it
debimarzoline: No, I thought it was lovely, I loved the heather but it rained as soon as I crossed the Scottish border.
Tony Alves: hahahahahahaa
debimarzoline: What is the name of her school there, I kept picturing it in England?
Tony Alves: Napier University
debimarzoline: Never heard of it lol
Tony Alves: you can google it
debimarzoline: I'm sure I can. Is this her first year there?
debimarzoline: Did she settle in well?
debimarzoline: Since she only writes me when we are talking money...
Tony Alves: all that will chnage now
debimarzoline: Why?
Tony Alves: cos this will all be over with
debimarzoline: Swear to God!!!
Tony Alves: I SWEAR TO GOD ALMIGHTY
Tony Alves: i am sorry you have lost confidence in me
debimarzoline: It's not just that, I found some of the emails you sent me, verbatim on a website and I am heartsick
Tony Alves: are you kidding me
debimarzoline: Nope
Tony Alves: i searcehd online for some of those letters
Tony Alves: love letters
Tony Alves: and i edited them cos its
Tony Alves: and express m,y feelings to you,i am sorry ,i didnt know it is a crime to do that
debimarzoline: Did you go to Pigbusters.com...that is where I found them.
Tony Alves: nope
debimarzoline: Its not a crime but they are like from the fraud handbook.
Tony Alves: can we have this conversation next week please
debimarzoline: Oh sure.
debimarzoline: What were you going to say??
Tony Alves: \i need you to to hold strong and have faith,i told you i wont let you down and i wont
Tony Alves: i love you and i can only show it to you
Tony Alves: i am tired of telling you
debimarzoline: Remember what you told me when we first started...you threatened me wit God.
debimarzoline: If I hurt you, you threatened me with God.
debimarzoline: I am so scared right now I don't know what to do....I have gotten to know you and I hope no one would be that evil
debimarzoline: I love tha man I have gotten to know, don't mess that up, okay?
debimarzoline: Using your words...
Tony Alves: i wont mess it up
Tony Alves: and i am sorry for puting you in this tight situation that you are now questioning my commitemnt to you
debimarzoline: Because I will tell you now I will curl up into a ball and I don't know if I could come out of it.
Tony Alves: i will be by your side to take careof you
Tony Alves: i am tired
debimarzoline: I will want to die.
Tony Alves: so tired
debimarzoline: I know you are...
Tony Alves: and the leat thing you need now is negative thoughts
Tony Alves: cos it will doyou no good
debimarzoline: Its not negative thoughts, it is hurt
Tony Alves: the only wya i can make you happy os fr me to be with you next week
debimarzoline: I need you so much
Tony Alves: i need you too
Tony Alves: so lets comeplete this task together,you,me and Inessa
Tony Alves: so i can be with you all next week ok
debimarzoline: Okay.
Tony Alves: in the meantime today i will take new pics,with the detal chairs and the dental centre
Tony Alves: will email them to you tomorrow
debimarzoline: Thank you
debimarzoline: Thank you for putting my mind at ease and my heart.
debimarzoline: And you, I need new pictures, my old ones are crinkled.
Tony Alves: sure,you will get brand new pics
debimarzoline: I need your hairy chest.
debimarzoline: But if you have a hairy back we are waxing that...
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i love you so much and i will not hurt you,I PROMISE YOU WITH MY LIFE,just hang in there for few more days.m coming to take care of you... will take all your pains away and you will take mine away too.we both need each other badly,we both are the medicine we need
debimarzoline: Okay, baby I am holding you to it. I love you so much, too
Tony Alves is typing...
Tony Alves: go rest your tired body.... be at peace,worry not and sleep.will talk with you tomorrow. love you bunch...
debimarzoline: Bye for now, baby
I admit I was laying it on thick in the beginning of this chat but I wanted to see if he had any heart or conscious at all turns out...NO! All he does is react to whatever you say to him, in a loving and understanding way, no with any truth or honesty but with wha the victim wants to hear. And the "Bye for now" ending to most of our conversations whether by phone or chat was all him....he would say "not bye but bye for now", isn't that just adorable?
Now the last of my money jhas been delivered and I receive the following email from my new daughter, Inessa:
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you - Jul 24
Hi Debbie,
It is done,all we need do is wait for him to get done and get the hell out of Iran
I will keep intouch
Inessa
Followed by my email:
Re: Today debi1954 to alves_inessa - Jul 24
Inessa,
Let me know as soon as you hear something as apparently he has no internet connection. thanks!
Debi
A day has gone by and I have heard nothing, I can't get through on the phone and when I do hear the familiar ring it is not answered, I send the following email to both of them:
Closure debi1954 to alvest101 and alves_inessa - Jul 25
Dear Family,
I could use some closure. A simple thank you and goodbye would suffice.
Love and peace,
Debi
Finally, after this email is received I get a voice mail on my cell, it is Tony saying he knows I have been trying to get in touch with him and he has good news...he is done, the job is complete. I feel like an ass because he was probably busy finishing the job while I was whining but I got a response so there ya go.I talk to him Sunday night and it is his Monday morning and he says he is meeting with his clients at 11:00AM, I ask him if he is excited...no duh! I ask him to please call me as soon as he is in London which should be around the middle of my Monday, July 26th, 2010......
My last happy day....so far.
Here are the new flight details I was emailed:
AIRFRANCE
Name: Dr. Anthony Mathew Alves
Departing from : London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Arriving in : Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
Departure flight : Tuesday 27 July 2010
Flights details
All times shown are local times.
Flight/Aircraft Departs Arrives Flight duration
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 06:40 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 08:55
AF1381 *
321 London, Heathrow (LHR) - United Kingdom
Terminal 4 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
01h15mn
Connection Connection time : 1h55mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 11:00 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 14:10
AF8990 *
767 Paris, Charles de Gaulle (CDG) - France
Terminal 2E
Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 3h10mn
Connection Connection time : 01h05mn
Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:15 Tuesday 27 July 2010 at 15:43
AF8733 *
CR9 Salt Lake City (SLC) UT - United States of America
Terminal 2 Reno, Tahoe Intl (RNO) NV - United States of America
01h28mn
* Flight AF8990 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
* Flight AF8733 is operated by Delta Air Lines on behalf of Air France.
Non-smoking flight.
Total flight duration : 10h52mn
So I am excited again, it seems as though we are back on schedule. Inessa is handling getting the money together a second time, it seems she has a friend who is willing to put their car up as collateral for a loan, I figured I don't care what she does as long as I am not expected to handle it. So, this is the email I get the very next morning and coincidentally these 2 emails (the flight info and hers are send on the same day).:
July 19, 2010
OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 19
Hi Debbie,
Good afternoon or morning,i dont know what the time is there.I've called you several times today but you are not taking my calls i left you a voice mail message i dont know if you got it Please i need you to assist me in getting my dad out of IRAN,the person that was suppose to give me money today dissapointed me,i am $X500 short.I told my dad and to talk to you about it,he will just not hear of it,he said he can't in good conscience ask you for anymore help,he has put you tru more than enough troubles,he said you've borrowed $X000 already.
HE told me i should forget about everything,i should give everybody their money back and i know what that means.My dad is a very proud emotional person,he hates to be helped and when he is being helped and thing are not working according to plan he gets vey upset and depressed. Let me save you the sermon,I am begging you in the name of God,Join hands with me and help me Get my dad(your man) out of Iran.I am the one in charge of all the transaction and the sending of the Equipments to Iran,i promise you everything will be fine.
Please,please help me get the $X500 and send the money directly to me
kindly send the money in two fold(western union $X500 and money gram $X000)
Inessa
And following the same pattern, I immediately call Tony, my love, and tell him about this email. Of course, he is incensed that Inessa has again gone behind his back to ask me for money when he has explicitly told her not to...I go into problem solving mode again and come up with an idea: That nights chat with Tony:
Tony Alves: hi honey
debimarzoline: Hi Honey, sorry I woke you so early but I am in problem solving mode.
debimarzoline: Anything new on your front.
Tony Alves: its ok sweetheart,you have nothing to applogise for
Tony Alves: nothing new
debimarzoline: I can earn the money but it will take me awhile. There is a place in Reno that buys blood, I just have to find out their criteria, I run on the anemic side.
debimarzoline: And I have some jewelry I can pawn
Tony Alves: it is the time that is killing me
Tony Alves: my uncle can get the funds in 2 weeks
Tony Alves: but i cant survuve 2 weeks i have to be blunt and honest with you
debimarzoline: And I was going to see how long it would take to make a withdrawal on one of my IRA's
debimarzoline: Why not??
debimarzoline: You can do anything for two weeks
Tony Alves: what is IRA?
debimarzoline: A retirement account
Tony Alves: oh ok
debimarzoline: When I started this horrendous school schedule I didn't think I could do it but someone told me you can survive anything for 4 months and I did
debimarzoline: Then I did it another 4 months
Tony Alves: hmmmmmmmmmmmm you odnt understand,and i wnat to be with you
Tony Alves: is killing me
Tony Alves: i hate it to see you to begin to have some doubts
debimarzoline: Baby, you can do this....I am not having doubts but you need to man up! LOL
debimarzoline: I want to be with you too but I can wait for you, can you wait for me??
debimarzoline: You won't die because I am here waiting....!!!
debimarzoline: You big stubborn Fin!!
debimarzoline: Just make everything right and it will be perfect.
debimarzoline: Why do you say I am having doubts?
Tony Alves: how long will it take for you to make withdrawal from your retirememnt account Right to the heart of the matter
debimarzoline: I have to call tomorrow but it could be a week or more if they let me.
debimarzoline: There is criteria for taking a withdrawal and a penalty.
Tony Alves: what is the penalty
debimarzoline: 10%
debimarzoline: And taxes at the end of the year but I don't know if I have the kind I can borrow from/
Tony Alves: we can do that,i can take care of the taxes and 10% Still willing to do anything to get out and be with ME what a man!!
Re: OPERATION GET MY DAD OUT OF IRAN Inessa Alves to you - Jul 21
Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for all the stress my dad has caused you,to be honest with you,i am stressed out myself,i hardly sleep at night,the whole situation is killing me.I hope we get to connect later like you said but i don't know what time
Inessa
light at the end of the tunnel Tony Alves to you - Jul 22
Hi Honey,
I sure will give you more than just light next week... i just brought the dental chairs to the Dental centre,we are about to start installation,just wanted to drop you a few line to thank you for your extra-ordinary support and love,i give you my word i won't let us down.I will take new pics with the dental chairs and some of my workers,'will email you the pics later in the evening
Your love for life
Tony
You can bet I never received those pictures, he just couldn't get online after he sent me this email!
More chat about "our" prediciment:
debimarzoline: Why is the time killing you?
debimarzoline: And who has your passport?
Tony Alves: cos i am tired
Tony Alves: my clients have my passport,they fear i will sneak and run
debimarzoline: And how come you don't have a line of credit with your suppliers?
debimarzoline: Good Lord...do you always have the worst luck or is just since you met me?
Tony Alves: sweetheart those are some of the mistakes i will rectify
debimarzoline: You can cross the border into Iraq and grab a US soldier.
Tony Alves: i thought about all of that me not having a line of credit and relaize how bad a bussiness man i have been
debimarzoline: But they won't work with you for all the business you have done with them?
Tony Alves: and i hate myself for making you and Inessa go tru all these troubles
debimarzoline: Don't hate yourself, that serves no purpose.
debimarzoline: We have to rely on our strengths, all of us.
debimarzoline: And Inessa has perserverance on her side, I will give her that.
debimarzoline: And she knows how to pull the guilt strings too
debimarzoline: We have to be positive and resourceful.
debimarzoline: And I have to pray for guidance.
debimarzoline: And you need to buck up.
debimarzoline: Hello, comments?
Tony Alves: no comment sweetheart
Tony Alves: i am just lamenting
debimarzoline: Well, quit lamenting and brain storm with me
debimarzoline: These clients will still not budge on the money thing? B/c that is just lame.
debimarzoline: Be straight with me
Tony Alves: yes they wont budge,if they did we wont be having this conversation
debimarzoline: So, what do they think, you are just gonna hang around until something happens?
Tony Alves: yes they expect me to contact my people
debimarzoline: And your people are...?
Tony Alves: like my family or friends
debimarzoline: I am guessing it is Inessa, your uncle and me?
debimarzoline: Come on now, no associates?
debimarzoline: Colleagues?
Tony Alves: well
Tony Alves: i am a loner i told you that before,you see the more you ask me quyestions the more i feel terrible,cos if i was able to handle all of these without seeking for your help,you wont be digging into me like this,and it hurts my feelings as man (it is really starting to piss me off at this point that he is acting all weak and shit)
debimarzoline: I am sorry, I am just trying to find a solution.
debimarzoline: I don't mean to hurt you but I want you here with me and I will do whatever I can to make that happen. I told you I was tough
Tony Alves: i understand
Tony Alves: i will try to hold on
Tony Alves: you call your retiremnt people and ask them how long it will take,let them know time is of the essence,and i will also see hwta my uncle can do
Tony Alves: meanwhile i will try to hold on
debimarzoline: You can do this, baby, I have all the faith in you. I will try to raise whatever funds I can.
debimarzoline: Don't try, do.
Tony Alves: i will try my love
debimarzoline: I am not kidding about the blood thing, I have to call and see how much they pay. I know someone who put themselves through school that way.
debimarzoline: So, what do you do all day?
debimarzoline: And what are you working on? You said something about that earlier.
Tony Alves: it is my uncle that i am working on
Tony Alves: i mean hoping on what he is working on works out
debimarzoline: I wrote Inessa and told her to send whatever chairs she could as a sign of good faith.
Tony Alves: ok
debimarzoline: That is the only thing that makes sense right now.
Tony Alves: so i can be working with that while we wait
debimarzoline: Yes, and why were you so adamant about not doing that earlier??
Tony Alves: cos of what use will it be
Tony Alves: when she sneds them and still ia m not allowed to leave
debimarzoline: A sign of good faith
debimarzoline: Is the wiring fixed on those bases?
Tony Alves: yes
debimarzoline: I haven't sent you a song today, I haven't been in the mood. You are probably sick of them anyway.
Tony Alves: i am never sick of anything from you (Especially any money I sent)
Tony Alves: but i wnat mor ethan the song,if you can put yourself in a box and send yourself over here i will be whole
debimarzoline: I love you.
debimarzoline: I just hope God still loves me and I am not just a big fool.
Tony Alves: oh no you just didnt say that
debimarzoline: Sorry, I take that back
Tony Alves: sweetehart you cant take it back,you just but confirmed all i have been saying
debimarzoline: No, I haven't
debimarzoline: I'm just missing what we should be thinking about now
debimarzoline: And not all this crap.
Tony Alves: thanks,i love you
Tony Alves: i wnat to go now,i need to take a nap
debimarzoline: I am just feeling beat down
Tony Alves: and think ok Of a way to get him more money!!
debimarzoline: Okay, I love you....
Okay, I wasn't really going to sell my blood but it was my way of showing him how desperate I had become now, too. At this point I was running on pure adrenaline and time was ticking....
We talk this night on the phone and my Tony is so thankful for the money and support I have shown and for the support from Inessa that he loses it and begins crying and telling me he will make it up to me, he will make me happy everyday of my life because of the rare love I have shown him (this is where his "Tony" award comes in). I am telling him he needs to stay strong and that I told him I had a lot of love to give and I can't wait until he is out of ther and we are together, blah, blah, blah...did I mean it you bet...Did he? Not a word, not a tear!
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
OK.I just finished speaking to my dad,he said he is done installing the 5 dental chairs i sent over.This is cheering news,i can't wait to have the remaining 2 dental chairs sent over so he can get done and get the hell out of there
Inessa
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you Jul 23
Hi Debbie,
Is 6pm here in UK, don't worry about the time,as long as you are able to send the money today,i can pick it up tonite or first thing tomorrow morning,then pay for the chairs and have them sent over to him so he can get them sunday morning.According to my dad he said he can finish up with the two chairs sunday and then leave Iran monday.
Inessa
I actually have gotten the money for this last payment but I am holding back to see if the pictures ever come through or I get any other proof that this is real...I have been very suspicious for the past two weeks but trying to play it cool just in case...
Second to the last online chat I have with my love, Tony Alves aka THE SCAMMER
debimarzoline: Hey honey
Tony Alves: my enternal love
debimarzoline: How are you?
debimarzoline: I was upstairs & didn't hear the phone. I was watching a movie
Tony Alves: m very well and you?
debimarzoline: Okay.
debimarzoline: Ya know what I would like is some new pictures of you, do you have any?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: i am here sweetheart
Tony Alves: very well,i guess you need that as a proof right
debimarzoline: Proof of what?
debimarzoline: I am just needing some new pictures.
debimarzoline: There were some things I was going to tell you when you were here...but I need to tell you now.
Tony Alves: i am all ears
debimarzoline: I haven't been all that well, in fact sometimes I count sugeries to put me to sleep...
Tony Alves: OMG
debimarzoline: I went to the doctors today and had an MRI on my neck b/c of the pain I have been having and I may be facing another one.
Tony Alves: when is the surgery
debimarzoline: I don't know yet but I am going to be really strapped for the co-pay so as soon as I can get some money back, I can schedule it. See what I mean about keeping me...I am damaged.
Tony Alves: you are not damaged,dont ever let me hear you say that
debimarzoline: I have been pretty stable the past few years except for the blood clots but I take meds for that.
debimarzoline: I developed blood clots in my leg and lungs but I was fortunate.
Tony Alves: i am sorri you had to go tru this
Tony Alves: say no more my love... i cant wait to be out of here
Tony Alves: i must be by you
debimarzoline: Thankfully I quit smoking b/c that wasn't helping.
debimarzoline: I can't wait either.
Tony Alves: iam so sorry.... the best thing for us is for us to be together so ic an take care of you
debimarzoline: What did your dad die of, he must have been very young?
Tony Alves: yeah he was my love
Tony Alves: he was hypertensive
debimarzoline: Oh, that is a shame and your mom?
Tony Alves: cancer
debimarzoline: Did you take care of her?
debimarzoline: Or did your wife?
Tony Alves: we both did sweetheart
debimarzoline: She must have been ill a long time.
debimarzoline: How is your blood pressure?
debimarzoline: Hello?
Tony Alves: lol
Tony Alves: i am very good
Tony Alves: no history of hypertension
Tony Alves: i am good my love
debimarzoline: I had a dream about your wife...what was her name?
Tony Alves: can we talk about this when i come next week please
Tony Alves: so tell me what did you eat
debimarzoline: Nothing, not too hungry
debimarzoline: I was thinking about you raising cash and I thought maybe you should cash in your plane ticket and buy a new one when you are out of there.
debimarzoline: Don't you even want to know what my dream was about?
Tony Alves: ok tell me about the dream
debimarzoline: Wow, twist my arm...she was happy and giving me permission to love you.
Tony Alves:
debimarzoline: And the plane ticket idea?
debimarzoline: And what do I need proof of..that is insulting..
Tony Alves: the proof thing i am making a bad joke... was teasing you
debimarzoline: Okay. Oh and I have decided to pursue criminal charges against those bad guys in Spain...just so you know.
debimarzoline: In case I have to tell them the whole story your name might have to come up are you cool with that?
Tony Alves: very well
Tony Alves: i was going to do that with you when i come over
Tony Alves: can we do this when i come please
debimarzoline: Why wait? I am not sure when you will be here truthfully.
Tony Alves: sweetheart i will be with you next week
Tony Alves: you said by friday you will get the money right?
debimarzoline: That is what they are telling me.
debimarzoline: But if that goes south what are our options?
Tony Alves: what si south
debimarzoline: Down, bad, not happening
Tony Alves: while will it go bad
Tony Alves: i mena why
Tony Alves: Inessa is handling it
debimarzoline: Honey, with our luck who knows...
debimarzoline: She is handling what?
Tony Alves: Inessa is in charge and she has bette rluck than us
Tony Alves: the transactions
Tony Alves: and the purchase of tyeh chairs
Tony Alves: i will be getting those tonite
debimarzoline: Really? She was the one who was robbed, remember.
debimarzoline: Oooh take a picture of the million dollar chairs for me.
Tony Alves: ye si remember but i will be getting 5 chairs tonite isnt that something
debimarzoline: Yes, was my idea.
Tony Alves: sure will do that for you my love
Tony Alves: ye syour idea
Tony Alves: and she did it without telling me
Tony Alves: so it wont goi sound
Tony Alves: if you get the money across to her
debimarzoline: How much are the chairs, each, I mean?
Tony Alves: $7500
Tony Alves: some $10,000
Tony Alves: some $5000
Tony Alves: some $14,000
debimarzoline: Wow, I thought they would be more.
debimarzoline: Okay, I guess some are.
Tony Alves: and the X ray machine is $35,000
debimarzoline: Glad that one was okay.
debimarzoline: How is your house in San Diego coming along?
Tony Alves: we will both deal with that when i come
debimarzoline: And with all these delays when do you start work in Canada??
debimarzoline: Does that cut short your time here?
Tony Alves: sweetheart Canada is September and ic an shose to start in October
Tony Alves: right now i need rest with my fsamily
Tony Alves: you and Inessa
debimarzoline: Are you still only spending a few days with Inessa in London?
Tony Alves: yes my love
Tony Alves: i will later come abck and spend time with her
debimarzoline: Is she in London b/c that is what I keep putting on the WU stuff?
Tony Alves: she is In Aberdeen
debimarzoline: Scotland?
debimarzoline: It rains a lot there.
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i sens eyou hate it
debimarzoline: No, I thought it was lovely, I loved the heather but it rained as soon as I crossed the Scottish border.
Tony Alves: hahahahahahaa
debimarzoline: What is the name of her school there, I kept picturing it in England?
Tony Alves: Napier University
debimarzoline: Never heard of it lol
Tony Alves: you can google it
debimarzoline: I'm sure I can. Is this her first year there?
debimarzoline: Did she settle in well?
debimarzoline: Since she only writes me when we are talking money...
Tony Alves: all that will chnage now
debimarzoline: Why?
Tony Alves: cos this will all be over with
debimarzoline: Swear to God!!!
Tony Alves: I SWEAR TO GOD ALMIGHTY
Tony Alves: i am sorry you have lost confidence in me
debimarzoline: It's not just that, I found some of the emails you sent me, verbatim on a website and I am heartsick
Tony Alves: are you kidding me
debimarzoline: Nope
Tony Alves: i searcehd online for some of those letters
Tony Alves: love letters
Tony Alves: and i edited them cos its
Tony Alves: and express m,y feelings to you,i am sorry ,i didnt know it is a crime to do that
debimarzoline: Did you go to Pigbusters.com...that is where I found them.
Tony Alves: nope
debimarzoline: Its not a crime but they are like from the fraud handbook.
Tony Alves: can we have this conversation next week please
debimarzoline: Oh sure.
debimarzoline: What were you going to say??
Tony Alves: \i need you to to hold strong and have faith,i told you i wont let you down and i wont
Tony Alves: i love you and i can only show it to you
Tony Alves: i am tired of telling you
debimarzoline: Remember what you told me when we first started...you threatened me wit God.
debimarzoline: If I hurt you, you threatened me with God.
debimarzoline: I am so scared right now I don't know what to do....I have gotten to know you and I hope no one would be that evil
debimarzoline: I love tha man I have gotten to know, don't mess that up, okay?
debimarzoline: Using your words...
Tony Alves: i wont mess it up
Tony Alves: and i am sorry for puting you in this tight situation that you are now questioning my commitemnt to you
debimarzoline: Because I will tell you now I will curl up into a ball and I don't know if I could come out of it.
Tony Alves: i will be by your side to take careof you
Tony Alves: i am tired
debimarzoline: I will want to die.
Tony Alves: so tired
debimarzoline: I know you are...
Tony Alves: and the leat thing you need now is negative thoughts
Tony Alves: cos it will doyou no good
debimarzoline: Its not negative thoughts, it is hurt
Tony Alves: the only wya i can make you happy os fr me to be with you next week
debimarzoline: I need you so much
Tony Alves: i need you too
Tony Alves: so lets comeplete this task together,you,me and Inessa
Tony Alves: so i can be with you all next week ok
debimarzoline: Okay.
Tony Alves: in the meantime today i will take new pics,with the detal chairs and the dental centre
Tony Alves: will email them to you tomorrow
debimarzoline: Thank you
debimarzoline: Thank you for putting my mind at ease and my heart.
debimarzoline: And you, I need new pictures, my old ones are crinkled.
Tony Alves: sure,you will get brand new pics
debimarzoline: I need your hairy chest.
debimarzoline: But if you have a hairy back we are waxing that...
Tony Alves: hahahahahaha
Tony Alves: i love you so much and i will not hurt you,I PROMISE YOU WITH MY LIFE,just hang in there for few more days.m coming to take care of you... will take all your pains away and you will take mine away too.we both need each other badly,we both are the medicine we need
debimarzoline: Okay, baby I am holding you to it. I love you so much, too
Tony Alves is typing...
Tony Alves: go rest your tired body.... be at peace,worry not and sleep.will talk with you tomorrow. love you bunch...
debimarzoline: Bye for now, baby
I admit I was laying it on thick in the beginning of this chat but I wanted to see if he had any heart or conscious at all turns out...NO! All he does is react to whatever you say to him, in a loving and understanding way, no with any truth or honesty but with wha the victim wants to hear. And the "Bye for now" ending to most of our conversations whether by phone or chat was all him....he would say "not bye but bye for now", isn't that just adorable?
Now the last of my money jhas been delivered and I receive the following email from my new daughter, Inessa:
Re: Today Inessa Alves to you - Jul 24
Hi Debbie,
It is done,all we need do is wait for him to get done and get the hell out of Iran
I will keep intouch
Inessa
Followed by my email:
Re: Today debi1954 to alves_inessa - Jul 24
Inessa,
Let me know as soon as you hear something as apparently he has no internet connection. thanks!
Debi
A day has gone by and I have heard nothing, I can't get through on the phone and when I do hear the familiar ring it is not answered, I send the following email to both of them:
Closure debi1954 to alvest101 and alves_inessa - Jul 25
Dear Family,
I could use some closure. A simple thank you and goodbye would suffice.
Love and peace,
Debi
Finally, after this email is received I get a voice mail on my cell, it is Tony saying he knows I have been trying to get in touch with him and he has good news...he is done, the job is complete. I feel like an ass because he was probably busy finishing the job while I was whining but I got a response so there ya go.I talk to him Sunday night and it is his Monday morning and he says he is meeting with his clients at 11:00AM, I ask him if he is excited...no duh! I ask him to please call me as soon as he is in London which should be around the middle of my Monday, July 26th, 2010......
My last happy day....so far.
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